If you’re retired, you’re no longer defined by your job. If you’re an empty nester, your children no longer define you. If you’re widowed or divorced, your spouse no longer defines you.

It’s frightening. It’s disturbing. It’s liberating. Decide to become the person you want to be.

Wendy Chiioji offers advice for shedding the labels that define you and keep you from smashing stereotypes and pursuing your true passions.