These days, actors Felicity Huffman and William H. Macy are Hollywood royalty. With a slew of acting awards and nominations between them and high-profile roles in projects such as Desperate Housewives for Huffman and Shameless for Macy, it’s hard to imagine they’ve ever struggled. But struggle they did.

As they both worked hard to launch their careers, they also worked at their relationship, and it’s work that has paid off. They dated on and off for 15 years before finally tying the knot in 1997. Now, they’re celebrating more than 20 years of marriage and a union that also led to two beautiful daughters.

Huffman and Macy open up to Growing Bolder about their long partnership and reveal the habits and tips that keep their union strong. Plus, they talk about teaming up together on a labor of love — the film Krystal, which Macy directs and they both star in.

Get to know this warm and engaging couple and find out why they’re not only embracing aging, they celebrate it and urge you to, as well.