Author Michael Losier caught the eye of Oprah with his obvious, but hard to harness, Law Of Attraction. It’s a concept that he says we can all use to change the vibes we’re all putting out. If we master that, we can change the vibes that are coming back in to our lives.

Michael says the biggest problem we all have is negativity. There are three words he says that we use an average of 300 times a day — don’t, not and no. These send your vibrational meter right to the negative side.

So how do we reset it? By asking ourselves what is it we really want. Instead of saying, “I don’t want to get yelled at by the boss today,” we need to say, “I hope the boss compliments me on my report today.”

He explains that the more we turn things around, the less we off-put those around us. He says you’ll be amazed at how that can change the way people respond to you in your everyday life.

Michael writes about this new way of thinking in his book, “Law of Attraction: The Science of Attracting More of What You Want and Less of What You Don’t.” His message is so powerful that Oprah gave him his own show on her Oprah and Friends XM Radio channel.

Want to learn more? Check out Michael’s other appearance on the Growing Bolder Radio Show.