Amy O’Rourke is one of America’s top advocates for caregivers and families, and in this The Art of Caregiving Minute, she offers advice for adult children who try to make everything perfect for their aging parents. Here’s a secret: it’s going to be messy and that’s OK! Learn how to let go of perfection and instead embrace a new reality. She says it will save you and your parents a lot of angst as you learn to navigate this new world together.