Amy O’Rourke is one of America’s top advocates for caregivers and families, and in this The Art of Caregiving Minute, she gets candid about one of the most delicate and difficult decisions many of us will face: should we ever pull a loved one out of the healthcare system?

She explains the steps we and our loved ones need to take before and during a health crisis. Get her tips for dealing with doctors and healthcare professionals who want us to make quick decisions, especially following an injury or diagnosis. Find out how not to get swept up in the momentum of tests, treatments and decisions.